Very annoyed and not sure whether i should say anything!

Re: Very annoyed and not sure whether i should say anything!

Sally Seddon — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 19:57:21 GMT

[quote user="Sandra Taylor RVN, MBVNA"]

How do you know someone else is not buying her her tea? I would definitely tread carefully

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I also thought this. I have a tendency to put my foot in it so if i said anything it would prob turn out that she actually does have no money.

Re: Very annoyed and not sure whether i should say anything!

Sally Seddon — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 19:56:17 GMT

Im gonna delete her, she isnt really a friend anyway and its only gonna wind me up! I was wondering about client confidentiality, was thinking i might get into trouble for saying something to her.

People like her really p*ss me off . Thanks for your advice xx

Re: Very annoyed and not sure whether i should say anything!

Ju_xx — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 19:42:21 GMT

I had someone that I went to school with that had her guinea pigs in, she had a rough couple of months with abcesses, bladder stones etc was coming in quite regularly. Again a facebook friend her statuses were always getting no at the vets i.e. more money spent at the vets and they still havent fixed her etc etc so in the end I just deleted her! stopped me thinking about it and thinking why is she moaning about it!!!

Re: Very annoyed and not sure whether i should say anything!

Phrin Vernon RVN — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 17:45:27 GMT

[quote user="Lolita"]

My advice would be not to say anything...I would actually delete her as a friend, then you dont have to see what she is writing and get annoyed about it, confidentiality is the name of our game, and even though you would like to tell her what for, you have to keep it to yourself I'm afraid.

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I second that. Tempting as must be to say something, it's not a good idea :(

I also agree that deleting her on facebook would be a good idea - that way you don't have to see what she is posting

Re: Very annoyed and not sure whether i should say anything!

Lolita — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 15:52:21 GMT

Re: Very annoyed and not sure whether i should say anything!

Sandra Taylor RVN, MBVNA — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 15:33:19 GMT

How do you know someone else is not buying her her tea? I would definitely tread carefully

Re: Very annoyed and not sure whether i should say anything!

Anonymous — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 14:41:28 GMT

i would be careful with that, client confidentiality would be crossed.

Re: Very annoyed and not sure whether i should say anything!

loopylou711 — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 14:36:25 GMT

Leave a sarky comment on facebook, that way she will feel a bit stupid for posting her status for you too see!!!

People like that annoy me!!

Re: Very annoyed and not sure whether i should say anything!

Steph Phillips — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 14:14:59 GMT

Thats a toughie!!

If it were me.. I'd write a comment on that status simply saying "how's your cat feeling!!" - saying it in a sarcastic way! or something like "ohh that money would have bought your kitty a fab course of medication'! Lol!!

But really, i'm not too sure where you would stand should she complain about it...

Re: Very annoyed and not sure whether i should say anything!

sarinhaa — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 13:26:33 GMT

this is obviously annoying you... you may wish to let her know that you think that what she's doing is wrong and fraudulent! many other animals could benefit from the money the rspca is willing to waste on her cat... however if you confront her you may cause major drama between you and her which am sure you don't really need the hassle... if it was me i'd just hint to her that you can see her status and that next time you won't be so willing to help her. if it was me she would rather go to mcDonalds than to pay for her cat. or say that next time i'll tell the vet to put it down... if she loves her cat she wont want that lol but that's me being a bit mean... i just dislike people abusing the system for their own benefit... my appologies for not having any other usefull advise...