What's right?

Re: What's right?

Kim Buckley — Wed, 26 May 2010 10:18:28 GMT

[quote user="Claire 'Duke' York RVN MBVNA"]

Things with me and my OH have never been better we've found the most amazing house and we go to Florida in 7 days and counting

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Whoop whoop whoop!

Wish I could live with my bf but he lives in a first floor flat and I have a dog. Grrr

Re: What's right?

Claire Cameron — Wed, 26 May 2010 09:56:40 GMT

Things with me and my OH have never been better we've found the most amazing house and we go to Florida in 7 days and counting

Re: What's right?

loobylou — Tue, 25 May 2010 17:24:03 GMT

Things between me and my OH have always been 'easy'. Never had to sit down and think about what we were going to do, the relationship has just progressed naturally. We got together, moved in together, got engaged, bought a house without really worrying whether it was the right thing to do. We've never had a proper full on blazing row and very rarely disagree.
Ten and a half years down the line I have to think something must be going right between us

Re: What's right?

Susannah Carrigan SVN — Tue, 25 May 2010 16:17:52 GMT

Someone once told me that you know when you're in love because you would do anything for your partner to keep them safe and happy

But to be honest it's probably different with everyone and deep down you just know, he/she is The One!!

Re: What's right?

tinydancer — Tue, 25 May 2010 15:32:13 GMT

I live an hour away from my other half, i knew he was the one because of how much i missed him and how upset i got when it was time to leave. Its now been three years and i still cry when he has to go back home x

Re: What's right?

Caro Laithwaite VN — Mon, 24 May 2010 23:20:57 GMT

ROFLMAO love that he is obviously very observant! Car not you eish

Re: What's right?

Nicola Smith — Mon, 24 May 2010 20:47:28 GMT

My OH, soon to be hubby - in less than 4 weeks!!- was very wary of commitment at the start. It took him ages before he would officially say he had moved in even though he was staying every night. He had to get verything straight in his head first - which took months or possibly years!! Lol!!

For me I think I just knew!! I met him in kwik fit while I was still in a very bad relationship and just knew I had to have him!! My relationship ended and I still thought of him so kept getting my tyres checked until I plucked up the courage to ask him out. It was weird - I'd only spoke to him at kwik fit but kind of knew we would be good together. He hadnt even noticed me at this point - just thought I had an obsession with my car!!

Re: What's right?

Claire Cameron — Mon, 24 May 2010 08:37:45 GMT

Things are better than ever.

Re: What's right?

Steph Phillips — Fri, 21 May 2010 07:56:17 GMT

Claire, I wouldn't go worrying too much about it hun.. you'll drive yourself crazy thinking 'does he feel the same way as I do, etcc...' you said he wont go into anything unless 100% sure.. that must count for a relationships too.. he is 100% sure you are right for him, he just doesn't know how to register it in his brain as "right" - I mean, men have a totally different view on being 'romantic' and telling us women what they are actually thinking.. put it this way, my husband hardy ever compliments me, and we've had words about it as it has made me feel unwanted in the past - but thats just him,, he doesn't really express himself in the way I do.. but I love him all the more, and even though he doesn't often compliment me, I know he loves me and wants me...

Re: What's right?

Kim Buckley — Thu, 20 May 2010 20:27:47 GMT

I knew Jon was the one for me because I didn't freak out when he tried to hold my hand (normally a big no no for me!). I'm also a complete commitmentphobe but since meeting Jon that has gone out the window. Talking about the future doesn't scare me and we are forever disagreeing about what dogs we will get once we have a house (border terriers all the way!!)

Just remember guys are weird and another species! Sounds like he's totally in to you though!

Re: What's right?

Steph Worsley — Thu, 20 May 2010 18:16:49 GMT

i think it is just that you think differently, if he doesnt do things unless he's 100% about them and he is buying a house with you then i think he knows deep down that it is right he just may analyse it a bit more than you do.

Plus if he hasn't had past experiences to go on then i dont think he will think about the feelings the same way as you do

in other words DONT PANIC either of you!!!!

Re: What's right?

Caro Laithwaite VN — Thu, 20 May 2010 18:01:53 GMT

I had the gut feeling and palpitations with hub apparently we are now headed into 24 years of marriage.

Re: What's right?

Caro Laithwaite VN — Thu, 20 May 2010 18:01:10 GMT

I am a mix if it feels right it is l then analysed it to death. Anyhow hit him on the head to stop his brain working do dunk yours in a bucket to soak it and move on it is right he has analysed it to death you feel it whats the problem?.

Everyones brains work in many ways there will be cross over in some areas to quote the old biddy in another post. It is what makes the world go round would be boaring if we all agreed.

Right that gem of wisdom that is gonna cost you will send you my fees probably involve a lot of packets of biscuits and some bottles of vimto and dr pepper.

Re: What's right?

SmegSlayer — Thu, 20 May 2010 17:55:30 GMT

I can honestly say i don't think i have ever been in love. I've had 2 boyfriends in my life and both of those only lasted 6 months.

I've never had the gut feeling or palpatations about anyone...

Re: What's right?

Claire Cameron — Thu, 20 May 2010 15:29:21 GMT

Re: What's right?

Steph Phillips — Thu, 20 May 2010 14:33:51 GMT

Aw cute topic ..

I met my husband in work (catering industry years ago!) and as soon as I saw him - I wanted him! lol.. I just 'knew' he was the one for me.. everything about him, from his manorisms (sp!), to the way he treated me & his mates - it all attracted me to him! 10yrs later, still together and I love him more now than I did then & I can't imagine my life without him (cheeese!! lol) .. he's def the one for me.. and me him