Messages for Caro

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Vicky RVN — Sat, 13 Mar 2010 08:24:39 GMT

Caro,

I too have just read your post. Really lovely words...brought a tear to my eye, and a laugh like Saskia. Stories like that are memories to rememeber forever more. At my grandads funeral i will never forget a story being told of when he was a child. When at church he locked the vicar into one of the rooms. We all laughed at this point, don't know what the vicar doing the service thought of it! It is so nice to think of their funny moments that truely show their personalities at such difficult times, it helps us to remember them for what they really are.

Take care x

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Saskia Quinn — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 22:38:55 GMT

Caro,

I have just read your post on your thread for your dad. What a truely beautiful and honest post! I did have to laugh at the ice-cream story and I am still sitting here chuckling away lol!!

It will be lovely memories like those that will get you and your family through this terrible time.

Thinking of you xxx

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JaneRVN — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 19:00:20 GMT

My sympathies with you and the family.

I haven't been on for awhile, but can remember some of your rants about the NHS, am hoping if nothing else you taught a few of them a thing or two, and so your Dads suffering wasn't in vain.

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Louise B — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 18:45:50 GMT

Hi Caro, just seen this thread. I just want to add myself to this long list of well-wishers. I hope you are keeping strong. Big hugs from me and licks from Sadie & Shads xxx

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Vicky RVN — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 18:27:23 GMT

Caro, don't apologise for not replying to pm's. They are just there to let you know we are all here for you when you need us. Your dear dad is now at rest, like you say with the rest of the people he once knew in life. Thinking of you and your family at this difficult time x

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Sally Seddon — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 17:10:06 GMT

Im so sorry to hear of your loss, thinking of you xx

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Edwina [Eddie] Norbury — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 17:07:19 GMT

cherish all the lovely memories of your dad,try and forget all the rotten things that has happened over the last few months and give your mum a big cuddle from the forum xx

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Sarah Nicholas — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 15:56:28 GMT

Thinking of you Caro <3

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Claire Cameron — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 21:22:56 GMT

I know that nothing I can say can alleviate anything you're feeling right now. But we're all here if you need to talk.

My Grandpa was brain damaged and was ill for over 10years and when he died we felt that he was peace, and everything that was thrown at him due to his illness was gone. He was resting and at peace despite everything. Your dad is at peace.

You're in my thoughts Caro. I am so sorry of your sad news xx

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paula morgan — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 19:21:18 GMT

I am sorry for your loss Caro, my thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time x

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Sandra Taylor RVN, MBVNA — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 19:12:43 GMT

Hey Caro, I already sent you a pm..

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Royalsuper_fairy — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 15:00:19 GMT

Hey, All my thoughts are with you. He will always be there for you when ever and where ever you are.

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Nicola Smith — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 13:45:29 GMT

Hi Caro, thinking of you, he is now at peace with no ill health to bother him now. He is still there and always will be, watching over you.

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Nick Shackleton — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 12:18:34 GMT

Can't add anything to what has been said by other, but thinking of you and your family Caro. Take care and keep safe x x x

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Lolita — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 09:58:16 GMT

so sorry to hear of your loss, my thoughts are with you at this very sad time x

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Mac Feather — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 09:01:51 GMT

We are all here for you so give us a holler anytime. Take care. x

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Caro Laithwaite VN — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 08:58:18 GMT

Many thanks and no l am not annoyed l just did not want everyone to feel obliged to write messages l know it seems silly. I am very touched by everyone's response, many thanks to everyone that sent pvt messages as well. l am sorry l didn't reply to them, l think then it would have been a lot harder for me to deal with everything but they all meant a lot.

I am keeping busy sorting things, trying to help my mum and am back working from next week. The funeral is friday next week. And l guess once things have settled down it will hit me. Although the amount of paperwork does seem to be fairly high so that is distracting. And l pop on here for light relief.

I feel dad is at peace now and being helped by family and friends that have passed. his body is getting over the cruelty that his ill health threw at it. I wish l could be as non complaining as my dad was but l fear l never shall.

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Laura Ringsell — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 07:11:47 GMT

very well said Saskia.

Caro i am so sorry for the devastation you must be feeling, anyone who has been keeping up to date with your entries and frustrations on here will know and understand how you are feeling.

Although it will probably be some time before you are reading these messages, know that we are all thinking of you and your family and are offering our support wih thoughts and words.

Take care and remember that time is a great healer xx

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loopylou711 — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 00:01:55 GMT

I shall be thinking of you at this sad time caro.

I lost my dad ten years ago this year (may). I understand that terrible feeling of loss all so well so if you ever just want to chat jst pm me.

You have a full forum of support caro and I hope that you are ok.

Again, thinking of you at this tough time.

Take care,

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Dippy — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 22:58:24 GMT

Can't say it much better than the above but my thoughts are with you Caro. x

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Saskia Quinn — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 22:30:50 GMT

aw thanks Heather & Steph!

I hope Caro isnt annoyed by it - you know what she is like lol!! xx

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Steph Phillips — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 22:29:28 GMT

Aw Caro, I'm so so sorry to hear about your loss .. I know that there is not much anyone can say to make you feel better. but know that you got good people on here for you!

My thoughts and sympathy are with you and your family at this difficult time..

xxxxx

Lovely thread Saskia

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Mac Feather — Sat, 06 Mar 2010 22:28:45 GMT

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Dearest Carolyn,

Please dont be annoyed that I have started such a thread.

As you are a long standing member of vetnurse, I feel we should be able to do something to show our support to you in your time of need. As I said in my text earlier, I am really terribly sorry to hear about the great loss of your dad. This indeed is a very difficult time for you and your family.

I thought this thread would be a nice way for us all to show our support to you as well as offer our sincere sympathy.

My thoughts are very much with you and your family xxx

So, if any of you guys out there, want to show your support to Caro, please leave a message here.

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Well said Saskia. xx