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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/utility/feedstylesheets/rss.xsl" media="screen"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"><channel><title>18th party</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/f/nonclinical-discussions/5581/18th-party</link><description> Advice needed please. 
 As a older VN , I have a soon to be 18 year old daughter. I have arranged a party for her ayt my hubbies sailing club. 
 I am worried how to handle drunks and drugs? having spent quite a lot so far, not too keen to go the bouncer</description><dc:language>en-US</dc:language><generator>Telligent Community 10</generator><item><title>Re: 18th party</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/54023?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 20:51:20 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:12c34493-5cb1-4f60-8680-bb4da6424f61</guid><dc:creator>Ceri Boyd</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;I had a big party for my 18th last year, obviously most people were drinking but there were no problems at all. If you try and make sure you only invite friends then it should be ok, although if you&amp;#39;re really worried you could maybe speak to some of the nightclub bouncers about hiring someone?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Hope your daughter has a fab night :D&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: 18th party</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/53636?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2009 17:18:21 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:1aeda775-72f7-4a05-97d4-b59c3e78a55f</guid><dc:creator>Caro Laithwaite VN</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;And if you were really really worried nip intotown and ask one of the club door men about hiring someone for the night. They all have to be papered up now and there is companies that hire them. Friend of mine had one.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: 18th party</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/53598?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2009 15:39:45 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:50bc3fd9-5df8-42da-a1b3-47356ecdc16a</guid><dc:creator>chris beasley</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;Thanks both of you. It does actually help to hear your comments.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: 18th party</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/53584?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2009 13:30:32 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:20abeff9-789d-49ea-868a-370f59b724f1</guid><dc:creator>Kay Eminson</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;I agree with LoobyLou&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Im 21 now, but thinking back to my 18th party which was held at my house by my parents, everyone was really well behaved and the drink wasn&amp;#39;t too bad. It was the next day when we all went out clubbing that there was more drink flowing. But can&amp;#39;t offer any advice on drugs as none of my friends do drugs as such, some spoke weed but they would never do it in front of my parents.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: 18th party</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/53579?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2009 12:09:28 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:9c1524ac-6b7b-4afd-896f-e68bbdf85a5e</guid><dc:creator>loobylou</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;Sorry if this isnt what you want to hear but............. in my experience by the time they hit 18 they have already done the going out and getting smashed (kids usually start around 15!)&amp;nbsp;so are generally better behaved. Its like now they can do it they dont want to!! Well at least thats what me and my friends were like &lt;img src="http://www.vetnurse.co.uk/emoticons/new/Very_happy_smiley.png" alt="Big Smile" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item></channel></rss>