Stress

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Claire Cameron — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 08:53:29 GMT

[quote user="Vicky C"]

Your friend is being so out of order! I hope you get something sorted soon cos i can't imagine it's a nice atmosphere for you. How is little Millie?

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Millie's ok, just sore and feeling sorry for herself bless her

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Vicky RVN — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 21:45:54 GMT

Your friend is being so out of order! I hope you get something sorted soon cos i can't imagine it's a nice atmosphere for you. How is little Millie?

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Anonymous — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 19:02:43 GMT

[quote user="Nick Shackleton"]

[quote user="StephB"]

I still stand by my original suggestion Clairebear! SH*T IN HER SHOES!

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Even better get the dog to do it!!!!

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We were discussing this last night. I came up with putting some cat attract powder in her shoes and training the kitten to shit in them.

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Nick Shackleton — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 18:35:14 GMT

[quote user="StephB"]

I still stand by my original suggestion Clairebear! SH*T IN HER SHOES!

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Even better get the dog to do it!!!!

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Anonymous — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 18:33:00 GMT

I still stand by my original suggestion Clairebear! SH*T IN HER SHOES!

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Mac Feather — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 18:06:11 GMT

Not fun at all.Is your flatmate going through 'other stuff' that maybe you dont know about? That might be an explanation.

Is it worth clearing the air and seeing whats going on or do you think its time to look for somewhere else?

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Caro Laithwaite VN — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 18:01:51 GMT

I would say just look for another flat asap and get out of dodge.

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Louise B — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 17:59:50 GMT

[quote user="MissVetNurse"]

and she just replied saying

not at the flat your not!

!!!!!!!!!!

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WTF???? You guys need to sit down and chat pronto or this is only going to get worse. PM Sal - she's good at finding ways to mediate in situations and not get the other's back up!

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Anonymous — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 17:58:37 GMT

oh ffs!

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Claire Cameron — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 17:54:19 GMT

well this morning was ok, back to normal then tonight she text askin if i was going to the gym with her n i said nah im gonna stay in and keep an eye on millie and my boy is coming round and we're gonna rent a movie

and she just replied saying

not at the flat your not!

!!!!!!!!!!

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Caro Laithwaite VN — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 07:29:01 GMT

If the agreement was millie then thats what it was she doesnt like it tough.

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kaz84 — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 06:11:20 GMT

moving in with friends is never easy..... it can either make or break a friendship. some times its best if you let them cool off for a bit then approach them. ive lived with some friends and it got to a point where no one talks, then one moves out... then the friendship is weird ... take about a year just to get back to normal.

since you cant talk to her, maybe you could write a letter? explaing the situation and your concerns? i dont see the problem with your animals staying there with you. under the condition that theyre your pets, you clean up the mess (if they make any) + you look after them? blah how could you not live with pets :( after a rat ar%^ day you need those little critters for a hug..

good luck, hopefully your flatmate comes around :)

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Anonymous — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 20:20:47 GMT

CRAP! sorry hun! I hate that you're going through that, it's the last thing you need with all the stress with Millie.

Hope it settles down soon.

P.S. there is nothing wrong with weaning grub at 4wks if he's being bottle fed. I would recommend it personally!

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les punton — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 20:12:22 GMT

I say just cry coz sometimes it just helps xxxxx

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Claire Cameron — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 19:51:12 GMT

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Oh n why is a car sales woman giving you, a vet nurse, advice on weaning?

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Because she knows EVERYTHING, or at least she thinks she does!

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Heather Christie — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 19:49:52 GMT

That's really unfair to say you can bring your dog and then turn around and say you can't once you've already moved in. I wonder why she did that? Think it's prob best not to kill her tho, even tho she is being incredibly unreasonable.

Oh n why is a car sales woman giving you, a vet nurse, advice on weaning?

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Claire Cameron — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 19:48:58 GMT

[quote user="Princess Ophelia Hermione MacBeth"]

Have you asked her why she had suddenly cut up funny? Is it because you have adopted another animal since you moved in? Just a thought as I p*ssed off my house mate by doing that (but I was in a stronger position as she was my lodger so had to accept it or move out!).

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I don't think it is because she asked me if we could keep Grub and Millie was part of the agreement of me moving?

Feel like bursting into tears, this is really getting to me and I'm not normally like this

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Louise B — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 19:46:27 GMT

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Claire Cameron — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 19:41:44 GMT

I've tried speaking to her but she's not the kinda person you can talk to. She talks at you. Probs best to wait until the killing feeling passes or I might be logging on from inside her Majestys prison next time I'm on lol.

I'm really worried about her op and she knows that. She's just being totally unreasonable. I can't move home either so that's not even an option.

Thanks x

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les punton — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 19:27:07 GMT

aw no, your prob upset coz you love your dog. Have you tried discusssing it with her? Maybe wait til the killing feeling passes though! She should know that your worried about op, us nurses are always useless when it comes to our own!

I had a great friend at college, in the 1st year we spend every day together (she lived nx door), the only thing she done in her flat was sleep and shower, she even cooked at ours. So in 2nd year we moved in together.............it was awful, now we dont speak. What changed I have no idea because we were unseperable?

I hope Millie gets on ok tomorrow