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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/utility/feedstylesheets/rss.xsl" media="screen"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"><channel><title>So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/f/nonclinical-discussions/4720/so-upset</link><description> I&amp;#39;ve had a terrible day and had to tell someone about it. 
 First we had to put a 4 month old kitten to sleep as the owners couldn&amp;#39;t afford to have a FB removed from its gut. The owners had left the kitten for 5 days before bringing it in. 
 Second</description><dc:language>en-US</dc:language><generator>Telligent Community 10</generator><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/48715?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 10:10:27 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:71f4ce12-7047-45a0-84cc-7ae0e5cd832c</guid><dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;Hi Sally, &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;just read this and want to offer my sympathies....hope you are feeling better and i&amp;#39;m sure that you you nursed both of these poor cases with the true dedication and empathy that us Vet Nurses do!&amp;nbsp; Keep up the good work and hope someone reported the dog owner to the RSPCA!&lt;img src="http://www.vetnurse.co.uk/emoticons/new/Thinking_smiley.gif" alt="Thinking" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/46128?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2009 16:33:58 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:465210b0-b871-4b66-8fca-10b79c514b3b</guid><dc:creator>A Little TLC</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;Is it showing signs of pressure necrosis? Or just infection?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/46127?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2009 16:29:45 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:4d09b01f-f4bc-47ee-b3c2-76760a2ae3b4</guid><dc:creator>Sally Howe</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;I am making the owner stay while I change the dressing so he can see the damage his darling daughter had done. Maybe he will care then.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/46014?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2009 09:31:40 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:8941b519-056b-4cf6-a81a-ceb76e7d44c6</guid><dc:creator>A Little TLC</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;Whether its kids being kids or cruelty, the kids need a right good rollocking.....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/45941?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 23:34:21 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:6beb0e7d-afa3-4f5f-a1b6-8b28e21fecf4</guid><dc:creator>loobylou</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;We have Kate who is really Kathryn but once worked with another Katherine so changed. We have a Katie who is really Kate but we already have a Kate (see above). We have Flo who is really Victoria and a Jez who is really Jeremy. Boss Steve used to get called Frank, cant remember why! Best one is Norma, real name Paula, named after Norman Bates!! &lt;img src="http://www.vetnurse.co.uk/emoticons/new/Very_happy_smiley.png" alt="Big Smile" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/45939?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 23:32:10 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:3adde32b-6093-47f7-9c25-7e33f407f73e</guid><dc:creator>Saskia Quinn</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;Just call me Saskia........after my greyhound &lt;img src="http://www.vetnurse.co.uk/emoticons/new/Nerd_smiley.png" alt="Geeked" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Sas for short if you wish &lt;img src="http://www.vetnurse.co.uk/emoticons/new/Tonque_out_smiley.png" alt="Stick out tongue" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;hehehe lololol &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/45923?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 22:58:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:de26cf64-ab7f-4597-aca6-1471b5c645b4</guid><dc:creator>Vicky RVN</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;They&amp;#39;re all linked to our names first/surnames!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Dick = Vick&lt;br /&gt;Beaver = Eva&lt;br /&gt;Rolph = Harris&lt;br /&gt;Soya Bean = Shawyer&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The Big Dick was also a Vicky, couldn&amp;#39;t have two Dicks, she was older than me so Big and me Little!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/45921?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 22:57:03 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:3452b8aa-32a1-49b9-b3e0-3906d89b673a</guid><dc:creator>Sandra Taylor RVN, MBVNA</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;WE had a vet once called Angus, we called him Agnes&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/45918?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 22:53:49 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:1c491c3f-b18b-41b4-a641-3cbe2359ff53</guid><dc:creator>Caro Laithwaite VN</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;How did those names come about? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/45917?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 22:52:42 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:63198aa3-efe1-43d5-a9c6-d9e1907464af</guid><dc:creator>Vicky RVN</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;I have a work name (used by the nurses)...Dick.&amp;nbsp; It used to be Little Dick, because there was also a Big Dick.&amp;nbsp; Now Big Dick has left, so i&amp;#39;m just Dick.&amp;nbsp; New members of staff find it very amusing!&amp;nbsp; None of the nurses have real names!!!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;We have Dick, Beaver, Rolph and Soya Bean!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/45915?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 22:49:16 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:15561f6e-383f-4a81-8fc2-1cfa3884f5f8</guid><dc:creator>Sandra Taylor RVN, MBVNA</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;I always get Sharon or Susan, even though I tell peeps my name............... 2 secs later they call me the aforementioned, i usually just answer now as i cant be assed correcting them, it is funny though when they get to know me and realise my name is actually sandra&lt;img src="http://www.vetnurse.co.uk/emoticons/new/Winking_smiley.gif" alt="Wink" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Anyway back to the issue, i agree with Saskia and Gillian&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/45902?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 22:40:09 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:582f0378-b5dd-438d-831d-50e9f8839cdb</guid><dc:creator>Gillian Mostyn</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;I like the name I was given at birth and the one everyone calls me. Gillian.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/45892?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 22:35:45 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:a453301b-56aa-4828-b94f-b96ba62371a0</guid><dc:creator>Caro Laithwaite VN</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;Yipeeee finally someone has worked out how to spell my name the way l grew up having it said (if that makes sense?). l did my head in trying to get people to say &amp;quot;ca&amp;quot; when we came over to uk. l did not think it was difficult but everyone over here did&amp;nbsp;&lt;img src="http://www.vetnurse.co.uk/emoticons/emotion-43.gif" alt="Confused" /&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Then a friend of mine said he was going to use caro as carolyn is to long and he could never pronounce ca. So l gave in and went with the flow.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;My full name with 7 letters is miles to long for any sane person to bother with and anyhow they always get confused by the ending. I wish l had a pound for every time anyone has asked me if it is caroline or carolyn. My usual comment is &amp;quot;call me pretty much anything l will answer even if you are swearing&amp;quot;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/45855?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 22:13:41 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:216ce98c-ca6d-4650-8593-07b2c2c85730</guid><dc:creator>Gillian Mostyn</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;No problem Ca&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.vetnurse.co.uk/emoticons/new/Very_happy_smiley.png" alt="Big Smile" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/45844?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 22:03:46 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:5fa59a1d-41d2-43ef-b2db-8c5433559977</guid><dc:creator>Caro Laithwaite VN</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;Glad you clarified it gill the way you wrote originally you would rather abuse went unspoken. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/45835?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 21:43:24 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:d9af5d37-3993-468e-bfcf-40525e4f2fd8</guid><dc:creator>Saskia Quinn</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;[quote user=&amp;quot;Gillian Mostyn&amp;quot;]
&lt;p&gt;hehehe - I guess we agree on this one Paula! &lt;img src="http://www.vetnurse.co.uk/emoticons/new/Very_happy_smiley.png" alt="Big Smile" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;we sure do Gillian hehe &lt;img src="http://www.vetnurse.co.uk/emoticons/new/Very_happy_smiley.png" alt="Big Smile" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/45834?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 21:41:47 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:d8c112be-6966-4b36-b870-eb5f10013011</guid><dc:creator>Gillian Mostyn</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;hehehe - I guess we agree on this one Paula! &lt;img src="http://www.vetnurse.co.uk/emoticons/new/Very_happy_smiley.png" alt="Big Smile" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/45833?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 21:39:18 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:f768277d-1936-46d7-a2f1-93b31dd4d751</guid><dc:creator>Saskia Quinn</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;[quote user=&amp;quot;Caro Laithwaite&amp;quot;]
&lt;p&gt;If people have kids then it is permissible to report them as there is a link between child cruelty and animal abuse. Vets can report anonymously if they wanted, to not do anything is to allow abuse to go on by using excuses.&lt;/p&gt;
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[/quote]&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If I thought the incident was an &amp;#39;accident&amp;#39; or something the kids had done as a one off, then I would treat the pet and say nothing to the authorities, however, I would speak to the parent regarding the childrens tx of the pet and that it is/was cruel and uncalled for.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;However, if I thought it was a deliberate act of cruelty and there was even the slightest possibility it may happen again, then thats a whole different story and I would act according to the individual case. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/45829?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 21:32:05 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:cd3c1e1f-61ea-491f-9894-724a08637907</guid><dc:creator>Gillian Mostyn</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;This obviously depends on the circumstances. The kids put an elastic band round the dog&amp;#39;s neck - stupid but kids.....&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The welfare problem was with the adult&amp;#39;s failure to notice.&amp;nbsp; I don&amp;#39;t think this was deliberate cruelty in the way that could be called abuse.&amp;nbsp; Unless it is repeated.&amp;nbsp; In which case maybe it was the adults all along......&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Obviously if I suspected an animal was being hurt deliberately and this would continue, they would be reported.&amp;nbsp; And I would happily stand up in court.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;As always, and as with kids, common sense must prevail.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/45826?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 21:27:18 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:9beaafa5-fa19-49a7-b9bf-6497c9efd19c</guid><dc:creator>Caro Laithwaite VN</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;If people have kids then it is permissible to report them as there is a link between child cruelty and animal abuse. Vets can report anonymously if they wanted, to not do anything is to allow abuse to go on by using excuses.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/45823?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 21:25:45 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:ebcea89d-425b-4168-b74e-e1879335a4ad</guid><dc:creator>Saskia Quinn</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;[quote user=&amp;quot;Gillian Mostyn&amp;quot;]
&lt;p&gt;[quote user=&amp;quot;Gypsy Nurse&amp;quot;]Report her. People like that need to know that we aren&amp;#39;t going to take the ill treatment of animals lightly. [/quote]&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;That&amp;#39;s a tough one to call though. Although I agree that this was cruelty, at least the dog was brought for medical attention.&amp;nbsp; If vets get known as the &amp;#39;police&amp;#39; of the animal welfare world, then people are going to be too scared of prosecution to bring their animal to us.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;yes, I agree with Gillian on this one.&amp;nbsp; I would prefer we see the animal and treat it as opposed to the owner being &amp;#39;afraid&amp;#39; to come for treatment in case we report them.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;What would you rather?&amp;nbsp; treat the animal and say nothing, or have the animal suffer for fear of us reporting them for cruelty?&amp;nbsp; Definitely a tough call though I know which one I would prefer.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/45820?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 21:19:31 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:c5de16f2-a789-4c15-9ac5-0e52c98cb69b</guid><dc:creator>Gillian Mostyn</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;[quote user=&amp;quot;Gypsy Nurse&amp;quot;]Report her. People like that need to know that we aren&amp;#39;t going to take the ill treatment of animals lightly. [/quote]&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;That&amp;#39;s a tough one to call though. Although I agree that this was cruelty, at least the dog was brought for medical attention.&amp;nbsp; If vets get known as the &amp;#39;police&amp;#39; of the animal welfare world, then people are going to be too scared of prosecution to bring their animal to us.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/45819?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 21:17:22 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:c1a3b295-cc86-470e-bb62-c2f6f0fe1a1a</guid><dc:creator>Vicky RVN</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;[quote user=&amp;quot;SaskiaVN&amp;quot;]
&lt;p&gt;I saw a dog once that had been straying over to the neighbouring farm as their bitch was in heat.&amp;nbsp; The farmer had put a lamb castrating ring over the dogs testicles.&amp;nbsp; The injury was horrific, the poor dog ended up having a scrotal ablation, it was so bad.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.vetnurse.co.uk/emoticons/new/Baring_teeth_smiley.png" alt="Very Angry" /&gt;&amp;nbsp; There areis far too many idiotic people around!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/45817?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 21:12:14 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:a706f5f2-d10e-4f05-a13a-9db995a3a7e5</guid><dc:creator>Saskia Quinn</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;I saw a dog once that had been straying over to the neighbouring farm as their bitch was in heat.&amp;nbsp; The farmer had put a lamb castrating ring over the dogs testicles.&amp;nbsp; The injury was horrific, the poor dog ended up having a scrotal ablation, it was so bad.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: So upset</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/45810?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 20:55:48 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:f6430be7-9fa7-470b-9ce1-ee310937bf29</guid><dc:creator>Vicky RVN</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;[quote user=&amp;quot;Gypsy Nurse&amp;quot;]tried to dock his puppy&amp;#39;s tail with an elastic band[/quote]&lt;/p&gt;
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