Feeling very sad and low

Re: Feeling very sad and low

Vicky RVN — Sun, 06 Sep 2009 13:26:59 GMT

Enjoy the peace while it lasts!

I'm sat with devestation around me (the stuff i'm in the process of organising!). Like they say, you can't make an omelette without breaking eggs!!! I break a lot of eggs to make my omelette, but it's a very good omelette in the end! When i don't get distracted by this site that is...

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Saskia Quinn — Sun, 06 Sep 2009 12:10:49 GMT

Thanks Vicky

Still feeling lazy this morning hehe but thats not going to get much done. Boys are all away to football for a few hours so I have a quiet house

Re: Feeling very sad and low

Vicky RVN — Sun, 06 Sep 2009 12:02:51 GMT

Hope your lazy night has helped, a good relax does the world of good i find

I had a lazy night last night too, am now re-organising my life! That always makes me feel so satisfied, i can really relax when everything is in order I'm trying to not think about the fact i've got work tomorrow after being off for the past few days.

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Mac Feather — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 21:52:23 GMT

[quote user="SaskiaVN"]Just taking it easy and having lazy night [/quote]

Quite right, good on you.

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Saskia Quinn — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 20:35:53 GMT

Thanks guys, you are all stars Dont know where I would be without you all

Just taking it easy and having lazy night

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Sal the 1st — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 11:33:18 GMT

you know where I am if you need me - glad you are feeling a bit better - chin up chuck

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paula morgan — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 10:08:43 GMT

Hey Paula, you have had a rough time lately, its not been easy for you Glad you feela bit better today though, if you need to talk, you know whereI am, day or night. Take care x

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Mac Feather — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 09:32:47 GMT

Sorry to hear you had a sad and low spell last night but glad to hear you dont feel as bad today.x

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Saskia Quinn — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 09:15:57 GMT

Thanks guys, not feeling just as bad today. watching my ducks make me smile lol

The good thing about Rosie being deaf is that the boys dont waken her when they get up in the morning, she is still fast asleep in the bedroom

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loopylou711 — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 02:13:26 GMT

I couldn't imagine comming home to my Luka not miawing his stupid Miaow and telling me how mean his sisters were and how hungry he is! That I have to say would break my heart!!

But as STRVN said... she is always going to be there in body and spirit! Don't worry about the future though, make the most of the time you have with her make every single second count!!

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Sandra Taylor RVN, MBVNA — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 02:03:43 GMT

I totally understand the silent house....... have come home to that a few times myself........ just remember that when the day comes i will be there, if not in body, I will be there......... most definitely..... and so will rosie, maybe not in life but , she will be there believe me... always....... she will be there

Re: Feeling very sad and low

Vicky RVN — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 01:57:27 GMT

[quote user="SaskiaVN"]thanks so much vicky, watching jeremy kyle and crying isnt stupid, i have done that too, i dont know what is wrong with me right now, i just feel the whole world is against me, but reading these replies definitely does help, i know you have had your problems and worries too, i guess we are all in the same boat from time to time xxx[/quote]

When the world is against us, we can all battle against it together and come out the other side stronger. If only we could be children again, huh? Without a care in the world! I often wish i'd appreciated those care free days more, when something small seemed like the end of the world!

xxx

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Saskia Quinn — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 01:54:32 GMT

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Aww Paula, hugs hunny I wish I could be there next to you, for you, and Rosie.

no one ever leaves you truly........ remember that, no matter what happens to Rosie, she is always going to be there younger and stronger...........I know that is not any consolation just now, but believe me it will be.......eventually......... rememebr the story I told you of my dad and his dog sad but so teue....... you are not alone always remember that

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yes sandra, thats a story i will never forget, a really lovely one at that. you are such a bad girl, your post has made me cry - again lol, younger and stronger was the bit that really tore at the heart strings, i know she wont live forever, even though she is the princess in my life.

the day i come home to a silent house will be a very sad day for me - every evening when i come home, she barks and barks and barks because she is so excited to see me, the day she doesnt bark will be a very sad day for me

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Saskia Quinn — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 01:51:14 GMT

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This is for you Paula

I don't really know what to say to make things better for you, but i am here if you want to get stuff off your chest. I know it certainly helps me to talk to people on here about stuff, over the past few months people on this site have been fantastic when i've needed to talk to people who are unattached from what has gone/is going on with my family and work. Without being able to i'd probably not have coped very well.

I watched Jeremy Kyle today and cried, how stupid is that?

I'd like to go back to the happy 99% of the time person i used to be, but life won't let that happen right now.

Sorry, have gone off track, have talked about me which is selfish I'm sure my problems are minor compared to a lot of people on here.

Give Rosie a big cuddle from me and i hope things start to look up for you soon. Sorry i couldn't be of help but just wanted you to know i'm here xxx

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thanks so much vicky, watching jeremy kyle and crying isnt stupid, i have done that too, i dont know what is wrong with me right now, i just feel the whole world is against me, but reading these replies definitely does help, i know you have had your problems and worries too, i guess we are all in the same boat from time to time xxx

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Saskia Quinn — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 01:48:45 GMT

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Hey Paula....what can I say but....HUGS! and you know where I am....dont hesitate to contact me whenever you need me!

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thanks so much steph, i may take you up on that offer, feel like i have the whole world on my shoulders right now

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Sandra Taylor RVN, MBVNA — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 01:46:56 GMT

Aww Paula, hugs hunny I wish I could be there next to you, for you, and Rosie.

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Vicky RVN — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 01:02:55 GMT

This is for you Paula

I watched Jeremy Kyle today and cried, how stupid is that?

I'd like to go back to the happy 99% of the time person i used to be, but life won't let that happen right now.

Sorry, have gone off track, have talked about me which is selfish I'm sure my problems are minor compared to a lot of people on here.

Give Rosie a big cuddle from me and i hope things start to look up for you soon. Sorry i couldn't be of help but just wanted you to know i'm here xxx

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Steph Worsley — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 00:59:41 GMT

Hey Paula....what can I say but....HUGS! and you know where I am....dont hesitate to contact me whenever you need me!

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Saskia Quinn — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 00:17:45 GMT

thanks Lou

After all you have been through and are going through at the moment, I feel quite honoured that you are giving your time to me - I know life isnt easy for you at the moment, I think I am just going through a bad patch at the moment due to different things which I dont really want to discuss as a post here in public, but basically, life isnt a bed of roses at the moment and I am extremely grateful to my friends on here who offer me support when I need it. Anyone hear of STRVN recently? Wondering where she is

Thanks Lou xxx

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loopylou711 — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 00:11:22 GMT

what doesn't kill us only makes us stronger!! With bad luck comes good luck.. eventually!

and well everyone on here is here for you! and we will make sure you are alright! and if not cheer you up! Try the utopia joke!

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Saskia Quinn — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 00:08:21 GMT

aw thanks Lou, even reading your reply has me in tears, I am not normally like this after a few glasses of wine, I dont know what has happened me tonight, maybe I am just very emotional right now for whatever reason

I am very sorry to hear about your bad luck, you are having such a tough time of things lately, I really do feel for you and I sincerely hope life works out for you very soon xxxxxx

I am just feeling a need for friends right now

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loopylou711 — Sat, 05 Sep 2009 00:03:24 GMT

hugs for you!!

Wine always gets me weepy!! Try and cheer up, i know it hard, i've had a downer week with uni, getting a job and just everything getting to me and eventually it ends with me in tears!!

Just take a deep breath and let it all out, a good cry does no harm! Always makes me feel better then go to bed and you will feel better in the morning!!