unwanted company

Re: unwanted company

les punton — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 16:34:28 GMT

thanks guys xx

Re: unwanted company

les punton — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 16:31:53 GMT

this made me laugh hahaha

Re: unwanted company

Caro Laithwaite VN — Sun, 16 Aug 2009 18:33:32 GMT

So be polite about it but firm. You do not have to use the term sod but can make it clear she is around to much but be straight not pussy footing around

Re: unwanted company

Nick Shackleton — Sun, 16 Aug 2009 18:13:56 GMT

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Easy tell her to take a hike you english seem to have a problem about being straight. If you are not happy then tell her.

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LOL - i try and always be direct when i have an issue, but i would struggle to tell someone to s*d off!

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ESpecially when its a member of your OH's family!

Re: unwanted company

Freckle — Sun, 16 Aug 2009 18:10:14 GMT

[quote user="Caro Laithwaite"]

Easy tell her to take a hike you english seem to have a problem about being straight. If you are not happy then tell her.

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LOL - i try and always be direct when i have an issue, but i would struggle to tell someone to s*d off!

Re: unwanted company

Caro Laithwaite VN — Sun, 16 Aug 2009 17:25:08 GMT

Easy tell her to take a hike you english seem to have a problem about being straight. If you are not happy then tell her.

Re: unwanted company

Heather Christie — Sun, 16 Aug 2009 17:14:07 GMT

Ur not being unreasonable hun, i don't think anyone would feel like entertaining after being at work all day. Think speaking to your bf is best bet, see if he can have a word with her. Otherwise there not a lot you can do but ignore her and go about your usual routine.

Re: unwanted company

Julie — Wed, 12 Aug 2009 15:44:34 GMT

Your BF may appreciate her company when you are at work but If she is there when you get home (and you don't want her there) then politely ask her to leave.

If she turns up on your doorstep then tell her it isn't convenient as you are busy/tired.

You and your BF should be able to spend as much time as you want together without feeling bad about it.

If she still won't leave you alone then a list of daily chores (as suggested by Sal) and your favourite meals maybe needed then at least you wouldn't have to cook and clean when you get home from work

Re: unwanted company

Mac Feather — Wed, 12 Aug 2009 15:30:19 GMT

Reckon she could/should help do house stuff if she wants to come round that often, as u say u r working a 10-12 hr day.

Re: unwanted company

Caro Laithwaite VN — Wed, 12 Aug 2009 14:42:29 GMT

I would just tell her sorry but.... however that is me and most won't do that.

Re: unwanted company

Sal the 1st — Tue, 11 Aug 2009 22:22:19 GMT

if she insists on coming round let her do the housework for you - bet she will soon drift off

Re: unwanted company

les punton — Tue, 11 Aug 2009 22:05:22 GMT

havnt spoken to him bout it as he has enough to worry bout just now, should settle down when he goes back to work. Have tried to drop subtle hints but doesnt seem to sink in!

just needed to have a winge about it.

the sad thing is i do like her but little nd often!

Re: unwanted company

Saskia Quinn — Tue, 11 Aug 2009 19:25:50 GMT

Les,

sorry to hear about your situation. It is hard when you come in from a days work to unwind at the best of times, so having outside company must be even harder for you.

Have you spoken to your boyfriend about it? Could he have a word with her?