Being messed about by vet

Re: Being messed about by vet

Karen S — Sun, 12 Jul 2009 09:46:07 GMT

Thanks guys. Still not heard anything from him but will text him later and see if i get a reply. If i dont, then im leaving it be and getting on with my course work.

I have asked him about his girlfriend.... actually asked him outright this past Tuesday if his girlfriend minds as i do NOT want this to cause any issues between them and his reply was "nope, she doesn't give a shit". I have asked him before once, a few weeks ago and he assured me she has no issue with it. So i have to take that one at face value as i have not yet met her.

Just feels like im hanging in mid air not knowing what the next day holds which is a right bugger about when trying to do assignments and study and look after a household, hubby, dogs, horses.... etc etc. Grrrrrr.....

Re: Being messed about by vet

Mrs Dot Dot — Sun, 12 Jul 2009 02:34:09 GMT

Can't you just talk to him and ask him? You are putting in alot of hard, unpaid work for him....I know you will get something out of it but he is being helped enormously.... Do you think it's anything to do with his girlfriend objecting to you being around him?? You never know..............

Re: Being messed about by vet

Steph Phillips — Sat, 11 Jul 2009 22:20:12 GMT

[quote user="Karen S"]Any ideas and advice? Or should i just can it now and be done with it as it is seriously wasting my time when i could, quite honestly, be studying and doing my assignments for my course.[/quote]

I'd do just that!! why waste your time with let downs?? your not getting paid for it, so I assume you've not got a contract in place saying you "must be on hand at the ready - just incase..etc" .. you clearly are dedicated, use that dedication on your course.

Is he approachable? Can you tell him that you dont appritiate being messed about?