life at home....

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Anonymous — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 19:17:02 GMT

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Whats your thoughts on moving in with your boyfriend?

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I honestly dont mind it. We only been together 3 months but would feel right. He still lives at home but his parents are fine with staying for a bit

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can you take your rabbits with you to ur bfriends? if so then maybe that would be the best thing to do. When you start your studies it will become hard work for you in the current situation. can you and your bfriend get a place together. I dont know how old u r or your financial status but thats another option??

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I dont think it would be easy taking them all to his house. He said it would be fine though. But taking 2 outdoor bunny hutches which are huge (one a giant bunny) and an indoor bunny is difficult.
Bf has mentioned he will find us somewhere as he wants to think about moving out of home anyways, but obviously costs are the main issues. Im currently 21 yrs old, paying back bank loan and a small student loan as well...

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bongo — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 22:36:27 GMT

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Mac Feather — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 22:29:20 GMT

Whats your thoughts on moving in with your boyfriend?

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Anonymous — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 22:24:12 GMT

one rabbit is my own. I love all the rabbits to bits (we have 3 in total). I would never be able to rehome home, couldnt bear that to happen. they would obv feed and clean if i wasnt there, but wen i am, i do it all anyways and buy all the stuff and food for them.

I agree that i need to lead my life, im 22 this year.... But i suppose it can be easier said than done. And Caro, my bf said the same thing about leading my life for me not other people. x

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Caro Laithwaite VN — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 22:06:35 GMT

I agree with Lil Miss. You need to lead your life. If the rabbits are not getting care just take tell the family you will report them to the rspca for neglect, it may mean they are dumped on you if so great... rehome them.

You need to lead life for yourself not for everyone else.

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Heather Christie — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 21:33:01 GMT

Ur not being stupid, It's not fair that you have to babysit your siblings or clean out all the rabbits. If your parents are approachable then maybe you could talk to them and tell them you're worried you won't be able to cope with all your studies if you're having to entertain your brothers/sisters all the time. Alternatively, maybe you could move in with your boyf and let your absence do the talking? It might shcok your parents into realising that you're an adult now with your own life to lead. I left home when i was 16 and it was the best decision of my life. I don't know how close you are with your parents, but maybe it's something to think about.