https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/f/nonclinical-discussions/2841/care-help As has been guessed l am fairly tearing my hair out with my mum. Not her fault just how she is l get frustrated as l know how she used to be. Anyhow at the hospital they had a carers newsletter lying around so l took it. Today l rang up for advice. Aen-USTelligent Community 10https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/25059?ContentTypeID=1Wed, 27 May 2009 22:10:59 GMT1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:61e25c72-0548-4d76-aa1d-fec430917230Caro Laithwaite VN<p>oh orginisation is universal 3 times the cretins have sent the bather for my dad knowing he is in hospital ffs!</p><div style="clear:both;"></div>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/25035?ContentTypeID=1Wed, 27 May 2009 21:46:00 GMT1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:05ca9116-c5d2-4802-8531-ddf95812f544dinkyd<p>Have lost count the number of organisations, private companies etc she has been through - at the moment it is a direct payment scheme and is getting 3 hours once a week - but have been getting hassle with this to no one seems to have a clue what they are doing - the woman who comes is fab but the people who are in charge are useless lol!Glad you are getting the help needed- i wouldnt wish the stress on anyone.<img src="http://www.vetnurse.co.uk/emoticons/emotion-2.gif" alt="Big Smile" /></p><div style="clear:both;"></div>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/24919?ContentTypeID=1Wed, 27 May 2009 03:06:01 GMT1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:a65f6558-1235-4fff-8e12-d171bc7a1c16Caro Laithwaite VN<p>DinkyD contact local volunteers it is worth it if this lot is anything to go by <img src="http://www.vetnurse.co.uk/emoticons/emotion-1.gif" alt="Smile" /></p><div style="clear:both;"></div>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/24916?ContentTypeID=1Tue, 26 May 2009 23:52:16 GMT1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:0a46916d-0013-43a7-ac18-78d66029a401dinkyd<p>Hi hope you and your mum get the help you need.My mum has been very let down by the system with my little brother - he has cerebal palsy and completely dependent on my mum for everything.He has just turned ten today.She gets help at all apart from 3hrs once a week from a private company so she can get some time to herself.Social work are a complete joke - she doesnt have a social worker but a social work assistant!</p> <p>I really hope you all get as much help as possible.Its tough going.</p><div style="clear:both;"></div>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/24910?ContentTypeID=1Tue, 26 May 2009 22:52:28 GMT1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:833b1dea-fe62-46a1-8140-2f84816b5b5bpaula morgan<p>I hope you get your mums carers sorted out, its not easy being a daughter, I always seem to feel guilty about everything!</p><div style="clear:both;"></div>