Not sure what to do

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paula morgan — Wed, 13 May 2009 22:05:17 GMT

Oh thats fantastic, I am so glad you feel better. If you want to feel even better, buy a Border Terrier, theres nothing quite like Border hugs and kisses

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Claire Cameron — Wed, 13 May 2009 22:05:11 GMT

Aww I'm so pleased things are looking up for you already! You deserve it! Have a fantastic time at the weekend.

Chin up! Things can only get better! xxx

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Mrs Dot Dot — Wed, 13 May 2009 21:58:58 GMT

Glad things are looking brighter X

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Vicky RVN — Wed, 13 May 2009 21:23:46 GMT

So glad to hear you are getting the support you need now. Enjoy yourself on saturday.

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Caro Laithwaite VN — Wed, 13 May 2009 21:12:34 GMT

Look for the new you the old you needs an overhaul. Perfect time to put in place all the l wishes and never did.

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Faye Sewell — Wed, 13 May 2009 21:03:33 GMT

WOW reading your story made me well up!. You have such courage. Please keep us updated on how you are getting on, so glad you have found confidence in your gp and friend/colleague.

Take care

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Mac Feather — Wed, 13 May 2009 21:00:49 GMT

I am so pleased to hear your new doctor was alot more understanding and that things are moving in the right direction. Great news!

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Sandra Taylor RVN, MBVNA — Wed, 13 May 2009 20:51:40 GMT

You are welcome, and I am sure I say that for all.

I am glad the dr visit went well, and good on your workmate for looking out for you, she deserves a gold star.

You keep climbing those stairs and keep us informed on how you are, daily if necessary we are all here for you.

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A Little TLC — Wed, 13 May 2009 20:50:04 GMT

Goog girl, Well done.

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Saskia Quinn — Wed, 13 May 2009 20:49:08 GMT

I am absolutely delighted to hear that! Well done!!

It will take time to get over what has happened, but with the support you are receiving, hopefully it will be made that little bit easier for you.

The only way is up and I feel you are on your way.

A trip to the cinema and dinner sounds lovely! You enjoy some me time on saturday, maybe a lovely hot soak in the bath with nice candles and music and enjoy getting all dressed up and girly!

Thinking of you xxx

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Lost_and_confused — Wed, 13 May 2009 20:44:18 GMT

Docs today went really well, I actually feel like a weight has been lifted, the doc was so lovely and understanding she apologised for how the other doctor treated me, she has referred me for councelling and has put it on an urgent request. She did say it could take up to 6weeks to get an appointment but I was welcome to go and make an appointment with her just for a chat if things feel like they are getting too much. She was so fantastic. And my colleague who came with me is taking me to dinner then cinema after to get me out the house on sat so I am looking forward to that. I am feeling so much better than I have in weeks and its all thanks to posting on here. I am just so glad that people listened as I thought I was going mad. I know its going to be a long time till I feel like myself again but I do feel like I am one stair up the staircase.

Thank you all so so so much with my whole heart.

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Mac Feather — Wed, 13 May 2009 16:25:54 GMT

Yes, Id say try to eat healthy coz in the long run it will help you feel better.

Also I read this somewhere today and thought of you - 'the best revenge is living well'.

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Natalie White — Wed, 13 May 2009 16:24:39 GMT

The other thing I should have said is have a look at info on Bach Flower Remedies. They were a life saver for me when I was at a low point. xx

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Natalie White — Wed, 13 May 2009 16:21:30 GMT

Bless your heart, sending a big hug your way.. Hope you got on ok at docs? Everyone has kinda said what I would have said too, but if I can just say, don't allow yourself too much time to think and dwell. I know it is easier said than done, but although time is a healer, too much time to sit and think and worry isn't good. Surround yourself with things you love - your pets, films, music, a friend, long lost friends, good food (if you get your appetite back) . Take up doing something you maybe always dreamt you would? Or think of something that would be a dream to do and work towards it. And remember to hold your head up high, and keep looking forward, not back. You never know what is just around the corner. xx

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Saskia Quinn — Tue, 12 May 2009 23:45:51 GMT

I am so glad you are getting the help you so desperately need and how nice that someone you know will be going to the doctor with you. That is an extremely nice thing for them to do and I am so glad. You have to realise that there are people around who do care about you, as do we on here.

As has been said, please, do let us know how you get on and keep talking, it does help.

Chin up, eh? xxx

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Louise Allen — Tue, 12 May 2009 23:29:50 GMT

That is good news! Take care x

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Denise — Tue, 12 May 2009 23:23:40 GMT

Good luck and a big hug being sent to you for tomorrow

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Sandra Taylor RVN, MBVNA — Tue, 12 May 2009 22:27:10 GMT

I am glad you have a workmate looking out for you too, and what a kind person offering to look out for you close to home so to speak.We are here for you too if you need to bend an ear or a shoulder to cry on.

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paula morgan — Tue, 12 May 2009 21:57:14 GMT

Great news, you even sound a bit better You have taken the first step and thats good, I hope everything goes well for you at the doctors, Take care xx

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Mac Feather — Tue, 12 May 2009 21:44:41 GMT

Let us know how you get on at the docs.

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A Little TLC — Tue, 12 May 2009 21:07:44 GMT

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Hi, thank you all so much for all your replies I cant tell you what a lift it has given me, I am going back to the doctor tomorrow, but I have requested a different doctor. Someone I work with read my post and realised it was me, they spoke to me today about it they are coming to doctors with me and are coming to my house at the weekend.I still dont know what to do with myself but at least I have someone to speak to now. and all of you.

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That is awesome.... it gave me tingles.... is that sad...? i dunno, i don't care ... cos thats ace...

if you are ever offered support, take it, its because people care, not because they 'have to'.

good luck at the docs, and have a lovely weekend. think positive.. x

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Juliet Drummond DAVN (med) RVN D32/33 — Tue, 12 May 2009 20:43:02 GMT

thats great news, i was worried about you.

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Mac Feather — Tue, 12 May 2009 20:35:27 GMT

Thats great that you are seeing a different doctor and that you have a work mate looking out for you.

Be kind to yourself,have some me time, even if its something 'simple' like having a nice bath with your favourite bubble bath and some candles etc, anything that gives you a little joy and is good for you.

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Fleabee99 — Tue, 12 May 2009 20:33:11 GMT

thats fantastic news, im sure i speak for all of us when i say im so glad you no longer feel alone because you arent we all are here for each other, ive had help off members on here too and i feel a hell of a lot better

take care hun, happiness is a way to travel not a destination i hope you start feeling alot better soon

xxxx

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Lost_and_confused — Tue, 12 May 2009 20:14:31 GMT