Pet Bereavement Support

Re: Pet Bereavement Support

JaneRVN — Fri, 18 Jan 2013 16:45:04 GMT

Theres also the Blue Cross service, where clients can call and speak to counsellors. They also do training for staff so worth a look. I often gave the number, up to the client if they choose to call, but its nice for them to feel there is someone to talk to. It also means they have a grief outlet that isn't the vets which is healthier.

Also check if your pet crem does any training I know CPC do, and others train their staff so you could always ask for theit top tips.

Listening is often what the client wants, and reassurance they have done the right thing. Also guiding them through the practical stages of when ashes come back, when is the pet collected etc. Leaflets of pet crems options are sooo handy to give to people as they forget everything at these stressful times. Putting the practice number and a contact name on the leaflet is a nice touch and they appreciate being able to call and not have to explain what has happened to a new person.

Re: Pet Bereavement Support

Sharon Doran — Fri, 18 Jan 2013 16:19:55 GMT

There is a website called www.findingmurphy.com which was created by a lady who had to make the heart-breaking decision to have her 16 year old dog pts. You could refer clients to it as there are probably shared experiences, emotions and empathy.

Re: Pet Bereavement Support

jane Lewis — Thu, 17 Jan 2013 21:28:59 GMT

Hi, I think it's always a difficult time. Ive been nursing 8years and I still find myself struggling to find words sometimes. Personally I think it depends on the client, if you know them well it's easier to relate. If your in a situation where u need to say something I often find talking about the animals life I.e saying "I bet she has been spoilt whilst she's been with you" often gets the client thinking of good memories rather than dwelling on the moment they are in. Have you heard of the Ralph site? If not def check it out it has a lot of guidance and advice, plus links to cpd that might help. http://www.theralphsite.com/index.php?idPage=23 Hope this is helpful x