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Selena Carnell — Fri, 21 Oct 2011 10:03:24 GMT

no words just xxxxxxxx

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annaschu — Fri, 21 Oct 2011 02:55:07 GMT

Sending you much love xxxx

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littlehays — Sun, 16 Oct 2011 16:25:29 GMT

you are all so kind, thank you from the bottom of my heart for all your support xxx

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emmRAR — Thu, 13 Oct 2011 18:54:31 GMT

You brave, brave lady, thinking of you and your husband :(

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Steph Worsley — Thu, 13 Oct 2011 18:00:21 GMT

I'm just going to echo what has already been said, and your little angel will be with you forever, you made the hardest bravest decision any family will ever have to make, keep talking, don't bottle anything up and be there for each other.

I can't begin to imagine how you are feeling, but you did the best you could for him.

we are all here no matter what...i'm sure there is always one or another of us online at various points during the day and night so if you want to scream and shout and rant or just want some one to take your mind off then we are here! xxx

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Sparky — Wed, 12 Oct 2011 20:44:30 GMT

Unbelievably brave of you.......no words can describe what you must be going through.....xxxxx Thinking of you at this very hard time x

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Tracy Windler RVN — Wed, 12 Oct 2011 19:40:03 GMT

Words just aren't enough. You are so brave xxx

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littlehays — Wed, 12 Oct 2011 18:23:57 GMT

we had leo's funeral service yesterday. i had to ask the reverand to read out the eulogy i had written, when i saw his tiny little coffin i just completely fell apart. i cant believe i have just buried my little boy, i miss him so so much. he should still be with me :-(

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danielle83 — Tue, 11 Oct 2011 21:35:13 GMT

i'm so sorry to hear what you and your family have been through and continue to go through!

My thoughts are with you at this very dificult time in your lives.

danni xxx

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BengalcatRVN — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 21:21:10 GMT

My thoughts are with you at this difficult time, Little Leo, sweet dreams xxxxx

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Vicky RVN — Mon, 10 Oct 2011 08:17:29 GMT

I am so sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts are with you, your husband and your family. Please don't blame yourselff, you did nothing wrong and made the right decision for little Leo. Sweet dreams little man xxx

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bongo — Sun, 09 Oct 2011 10:28:49 GMT

Don't feel guilty, unfortunately this was something for which nature had taken over. You made a brave decision. x

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Anonymous — Sat, 08 Oct 2011 22:20:32 GMT

Bless you both, what a traumatic experience, my thoughts are with you and your family, my sister had a similar experience, giving birth at 21 weeks her little girl looked perfect to, she has gone on to have 2 more although never forgets her little angel, I wish you all the strength in the world xxx

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Sarah Southworth RVN CertVNECC — Sat, 08 Oct 2011 21:37:04 GMT

cant imagine what you and your family going through right now, but i personally believe in angels, esp after loosing my dad. I find it a comfort to know loved ones are still with me and watching over me.

you have so much support from us here, and if you ever feel you need to talk/write, we are here to listen.

sometimes writing your feelings down can help, but it does not mean our loved one will be less remembered or loved.

hugs

x x x

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Mrs Dot Dot — Sat, 08 Oct 2011 21:18:56 GMT

I can't imagine what you are going through. I have never had the opportunity to have little 'uns but that is how it is meant to be. This year I have had some friends with babies.... I adore them. I am so sorry for what you are going thru. My thoughts are with you and all I can say is that things will only get easier...... and I hope that you will soon be able to realise that it wasn't your fault and that the pain will ease with some good memories to come xxx

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Steph Phillips — Sat, 08 Oct 2011 19:02:31 GMT

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thank you so much everyone for your very kind words and support, it means a great deal to me. our gorgeous little Leo was born sleeping at 5.29am on 6th october 2011, he was so tiny, so beautiful and perfect and the absolute image of his dad. our hearts are breaking and i just don't know how i am ever going to be able to cope with general life again. i feel so guilty that i couldn't make everything alright for him

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I am so sorry to hear your sad news :'(

Never forget him.. be strong for each other and know that you have many people around you, and on here that are thinking of you xxxxx wish there was more I can say to make things easier.. xxxxx

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dinny_06 — Sat, 08 Oct 2011 12:57:12 GMT

I think I can speak for everyone on this forum, saying that the decision could never have been more difficult. Little Leo, yourself and your husband is in my thoughts at this tramatic time. Sleep Little Angel xxx

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littlehays — Sat, 08 Oct 2011 11:39:34 GMT

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BengalcatRVN — Mon, 03 Oct 2011 18:22:07 GMT

You have lots of virtual, online friends who only want to offer support and kind thoughts, no matter what. Thinking of you, if you need to talk, there are plenty who will listen, and I feel no one is here to judge on anything. many hugs to you and your family xxxxx

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Crazy Cat Lady — Mon, 03 Oct 2011 13:14:14 GMT

How horribly heart breaking :(

Huge hugs from here xx

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Anonymous — Mon, 03 Oct 2011 09:00:30 GMT

Just read your post - it brought tears to my eyes. I'm so sorry for you both. You've made a very brave decision and for that you have my up most respect. Huge hugs and love to you and your family - you will get through this

Best wishes

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bongo — Sun, 02 Oct 2011 18:07:17 GMT

can't imagine what u r going through, hope this cyber hug helps

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Catherine Raymond — Sat, 01 Oct 2011 22:20:18 GMT

Writing and talking helps, I promise. My friend (vet) had just had her 20 weeks scan and then her waters broke and she lost her baby boy. This came on top of me having just lost twins at an early stage, 2 weeks ago. Second miscarriage in a year.

Life is shit and it throws all sorts at us. But rely on your friends and family and I promise you will get through it. Talk - otherwise you'll end up a twisted nut job like me!

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Sally Howe — Sat, 01 Oct 2011 10:29:39 GMT

Thinking of you at this difficult time x x x

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Siobhan Steven — Sat, 01 Oct 2011 03:12:21 GMT

You are very brave on so many levels, even writing this would be so difficult I'm sure, but hopefully in some way it helps to know that you have our thoughts with you.