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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/utility/feedstylesheets/rss.xsl" media="screen"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"><channel><title>Unsure of what to do</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/f/nonclinical-discussions/10394/unsure-of-what-to-do</link><description> Hey all, 
 I need some advice as what to do! Feeling really confused. 
 I went for a job interview on Monday, cam out feeling like I wanted the ground to open up and swallow me and burst into tears as soon as I got into the car. I felt that I was made</description><dc:language>en-US</dc:language><generator>Telligent Community 10</generator><item><title>Re: Unsure of what to do</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/96296?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Sat, 11 Sep 2010 14:03:45 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:e1267180-0d8b-46d8-9b9c-2801feec9370</guid><dc:creator>Vicky RVN</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;It sounds like you made the right choice, you could have been jumping from the frying pan to the fire.&amp;nbsp; Don&amp;#39;t rush into anything and something that is right for you will come along soon x&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: Unsure of what to do</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/96287?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Sat, 11 Sep 2010 12:45:27 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:7b501693-e22b-4b91-9990-b4fc625cbfa7</guid><dc:creator>Royalsuper_fairy</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;I decided to go with my gut feeling and turned the job down. The way I see it is I am in a practice where things aren&amp;#39;t too bad and I am happy and can pay my bills and rent. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I will find some thing one day&amp;nbsp; but that was not the job for me!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Thanks for all the advice&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: Unsure of what to do</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/96268?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Fri, 10 Sep 2010 23:06:21 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:813923a3-2623-4b87-b62a-b5ecd5c8e8f8</guid><dc:creator>Sal the 1st</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;would agree with that 100% - I know everybody has to make a living but some agencies are just too greedy&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: Unsure of what to do</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/96267?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Fri, 10 Sep 2010 22:40:36 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:98c2b813-efa3-4826-9386-53dae21bac2e</guid><dc:creator>Nikki Graef</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;[quote user=&amp;quot;Tracy Windler RVN&amp;quot;]&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If they have such a problem with recruitment agencies, why did they use one?! Weird!&amp;nbsp; It cost my boss &amp;pound;800 to &amp;quot;buy&amp;quot; me off the agency.&amp;nbsp; I have no idea why employers still continue to use them, especially our old favourites- we all know who they are!&amp;nbsp; &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;The practice may not have used a recruitment agency. At my old practice when we were advertising for staff we were contacted by an agency on behalf of a candidate who wanted to apply.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The candidate had gone through a recruitment agency herself, as a practice we were reluctant to go through the agency as we calculated that if we offered this girl the job she would lose over &amp;pound;3000 of her salary!!!! Obviously the practice wasnt going to up her salary to compensate for this so she didnt lose out on money, so instead of a fairly decent wage she&amp;#39;d be earning a pittance.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Also if we continued to employ her past the first year the practice still had to pay the agency for however long she remained employed in the practice! &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Seemed crazy to me and after finding out the percentage they take i would avoid agencies at all costs&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: Unsure of what to do</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/96264?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Fri, 10 Sep 2010 21:51:45 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:edd566a6-aa86-4cdd-ac12-b7de7e0d5da5</guid><dc:creator>Tracy Windler RVN</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;Oh, sorry RSF, back to your original post! Any chance of spending more time with the prospective staff? I know its a new venture, but a get-together might make you feel more confident?&amp;nbsp; But, I, also would stick with my gut&amp;nbsp;feeling if not.&amp;nbsp; I glazed over that at my last f/t practice and was miserable for 2 yrs.&amp;nbsp; Good luck!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: Unsure of what to do</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/96263?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Fri, 10 Sep 2010 21:48:37 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:2f0f7cf7-eac3-451f-b1a6-7e4c38add88f</guid><dc:creator>Tracy Windler RVN</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;If they have such a problem with recruitment agencies, why did they use one?! Weird!&amp;nbsp; It cost my boss &amp;pound;800 to &amp;quot;buy&amp;quot; me off the agency.&amp;nbsp; I have no idea why employers still continue to use them, especially our old favourites- we all know who they are!&amp;nbsp; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: Unsure of what to do</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/96259?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Fri, 10 Sep 2010 20:56:35 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:3b953aaf-d37b-42d0-8d5c-87216f2051ac</guid><dc:creator>Nikki Graef</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;After finding out how much of your salary a recruitment agency takes i would definately put in the extra work myself and not go through one, as we are on poor salaries as it is id rather have all the money for myself!!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: Unsure of what to do</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/96241?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Fri, 10 Sep 2010 17:31:25 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:0d3505c3-9600-418f-8254-994d21474edb</guid><dc:creator>Mac Feather</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;[quote user=&amp;quot;Steph Worsley RVN MBVNA&amp;quot;]I would go with my gut feeling[/quote]&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Im with Steph on this,I go with gut feelings too.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Hope you&amp;#39;re ok.&lt;img src="http://www.vetnurse.co.uk/emoticons/new/Right_hug.png" alt="Right Hug" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: Unsure of what to do</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/96055?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Wed, 08 Sep 2010 21:55:52 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:84750041-cdd8-47ae-a373-325ae3961c4e</guid><dc:creator>thebeestingbutterfly</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;We spend a hell of a lot of time at work, we should be happy in our jobs. If you felt uneasy i&amp;#39;d say try some other places out, dont take the first thing that comes along as i can guarantee that something better will come along and it will be a place where you can just tell you will fit in!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;P.s there is nothing wrong with going through a recruitment agency either, they are there for a reason &lt;img src="http://www.vetnurse.co.uk/emoticons/new/Winking_smiley.gif" alt="Wink" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Interviews are stressful at the best of times, but dont sell yourself short! hold out you&amp;#39;l find a place that fits!!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: Unsure of what to do</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/96018?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Wed, 08 Sep 2010 19:07:16 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:6cfa2b1a-ef2a-4c43-9582-337fbe807ce7</guid><dc:creator>Laura Ringsell</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;RSF - for what it&amp;#39;s worth my pennisworth!!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Nurses are in short supply so if this is not the job for you then all is not lost. In addition I would wonder if that is how the interview left you feeling (when surely most people are trying to impress applicants) then I wonder what the reality of working there might be like. Hang in there, good luck with your practical and if all is miserable and you don&amp;#39;t want to stay where yo are then locum for a bit. I know lots of just qualified&amp;nbsp;nurses that did that and were all the better for the process - you may also find a smashing little gem that may ask you to stay.....&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: Unsure of what to do</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/96012?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Wed, 08 Sep 2010 17:40:12 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:9043600a-db61-4b6b-99bb-57d758bbfca0</guid><dc:creator>Royalsuper_fairy</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;I think I will problem turn down the job. I feel that I would prefer to be in an established practice being as I will have only just qualified.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;The way I see it is that I have a job that pays my bills and rent (just) so I think I will hang on till I find some thing that I feel happy taking.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Thanks, you&amp;#39;ve said what I was thinking,&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;x&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>Re: Unsure of what to do</title><link>https://www.vetnurse.co.uk/thread/96011?ContentTypeID=1</link><pubDate>Wed, 08 Sep 2010 17:36:50 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">1a0763ec-3885-442c-853e-6cef656dfec5:fbcee5af-9c13-4e76-bf1b-a27d16a7202c</guid><dc:creator>Steph Worsley</dc:creator><description>&lt;p&gt;hey &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you are in 2 minds about the job then to be honest I would go with my gut feeling and turn it down.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;if you are really unsure right a list of pros and cons for both places and see which wins out on the pros side. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;there is nothing to stop you applying for other jobs!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="clear:both;"&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item></channel></rss>